Positivity Porn II

It’s been a couple of days since my most recent piece Litany of Positivity Porn. A friend of my shared it and it’s made a few rounds in some circles of chronic illness groups. That’s great, but I need to add to it. I feel as if I didn’t completely expound upon the idea of positivity porn and selling happiness in the place of legitimate change.

The friend who shared my article informed me of an awesome movement known as The Icarus Project. This movement focuses on the intersectionality  of mental illness in the world, while exchanging social support, ideas and pushing for a cultural shift towards acceptance. This is primarily why I wish to further discuss positivity and inspiration porn.

The foundation of selling happiness in the place of tangible assistance is damaging to anyone who experiences poverty, implicit and explicit racism, homophobia, transphobia, sexism, or ableism. That is what is so powerful about this language in my recent blog post. It can be applied to the experience of being told to buck up when you do not have control over serious, debilitating problems that are systemic or institutionalized. It is for anyone who faces the invalidation, marginalization and dismissal from their peers, families, friends, doctors and co-workers.

I wanted to further recognize the intersectionality of disability, chronic illness (physical/mental) and chronic pain. Humans are complicated individuals and everyone has a different story. Their experience is valid, it is real, tangible and it has affected that person in many ways.

I never want any of my readers to feel isolated because their voice is a little different from my own, or because they experienced something slightly different than I do. This isn’t to suggest that anyone even indicated that I left them out, but rather I felt I had left people out. I felt like it wasn’t enough just to discuss the core issue of positivity porn with regards to chronic illness. It is not authentic to suggest that positivity porn only effects a single group of people – no it is so much more than that. We cannot co-opt this experience as some singular instance.

This post is dedicated to a special friend, fellow spoonie and zebra – Gowen. Thank you for encouraging me to continue to use the power of my language, my voice and my writing to support my fellow humans.

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